Writing, and commenting, on blogs. and an apology
I've been thinking a lot about all the blogs out there in the blogoshpere/blogland, and about all the wonderful people i have met. I have made so many friends. Sometimes it is overwhelming! And I still have trouble realizing that there are SO MANY of you out there who care about the same things I do, who are inspired by design and color and detail, who are active, every day, in searching out and presenting the world of design.
I, like so many others in design, work alone. I have a studio/office downtown. I worked from home for many years when my daughter was small, then made the big move to a real office. After ten years there I moved again (a fourth floor walk up was a pain in the-you-know-what, but also very lonely) and have been in my great studio in the Cunneen-Hackett building for five years. No stairs; parking right out the door; friends!; communal lunches.... it's great. But, there is no getting away from the fact that I DO work alone. And with the internet, the phone rarely rings.
Ah yes, the internet. I love it (x 10?). My husband would disagree! But for me, as for so many of you, it is what connects us. And now, with blogging, I feel part of such a large community. It's truly wonderful. Not to sound too corny....but it cheers me up each and every day. Don't laugh. Again, working alone, you need feedback and positive reinforcement.
Why am I writing this (and what's with that apology up in the top line?), you ask. My friend, Kathysue, at Good Life of Design, had a post last week that started me thinking. Her title was : "To Comment or Not to Comment?!" Go and take a look. For all of you who are bloggers, it will have a particular relevance. Why is it that some posts garner so many comments? Why do some bloggers always receive lots of comments, even on a post that is not particularly spectacular or even well researched? Why do some bloggers just not receive many comments? Is it the nature of the blog? or is the post? Kathysue is right when she says you can read a post that is so thoughtful and well researched and clearly means a lot to the author, and yet, no one who is reading it seems to care enough to comment.
So, back to my apology. I read so many blogs every day. Sometimes I consider myself a sort of hunter-gatherer: I collect blogs. Yes, just as other people collect maybe, books, I collect blogs. Do you? Do you also spend hours and hours and hours each day, looking, reading, filing away, subscribing, commenting on blogs? I subscribe, either in email, Yahoo reader, or RSS to about fifty (yes, that's 50) blogs every day.
However, in dealing with this phenomenon I have become very casual and even lazy about commenting on other blogs. I am sorry. I wonder if this is part of the process and evolution of becoming a sesoned blogger. We begin to take these posts for granted. But as a fellow blogger, we know just how much time goes into a well written post. And so again, I say to all my many friends out there, I apologize if I don't seem to comment often enough.
Some of my readers are SO wonderful and not only leave a comment, but email me personally, and I just LOVE IT! So, thank you. We all love comments; it's really what makes us want to go on to the next post. But it's also what keeps us connected. And that, after all, is what it's all about!
Thanks to each and every one of you for helping me to go well over the 100 subscriber mark!!


Really? I can't believe I am the first one commenting. :)
ReplyDeleteI also subscribe to a number of blogs, at least fifty maybe more. Somedays I don't get a chance to read and then there are maybe two or three posts on some of the blogs when I do find the time. It just isn't possible to comment on every one. So, I pick and choose. I try and respond to people that leave comments on my blog unless it is just a really general statement. That takes time too. So, unless a post genuinely touches or speaks to me or addresses a topic I have something to add I don't comment. It's a hit and miss. What doesn't reach someone will likely reach the next reader. I'd like to think it all averages out in the end. Some blogs with so many comments must also have huge numbers of readers. I think I read somewhere that for every comment you had 100 views. Interesting.
Pam
PS thanks for stopping by and commenting on my red or not to be red dining room. I would love to see that green you are talking about.
Will try to get a picture to you before we move!
ReplyDeleteLibby, so what's your theory? Why DO certain bloggers always receive a ton of comments? It's like a little chorus after every post: "Yes!" "Beautiful!" "Awesome!" That sort of thing...even if the post is dumb. Any ideas? Are they more loved that we are? Is that possible????
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Julie: More loved than us?? no, not possible!!
ReplyDeleteWell, one theory is that a lot of the blogs I see with many comments are interiors; everyone loves to look at the visuals, and they are easy to comment on. And so, you sort of get a groupie thing going on.
Blogs that are a bit more detailed, or esoteric, or "to the trade", tend to have a very loyal following, but not followers who comment a lot. We read, we digest, we incorporate the content, but it doesn't necessarily call for a comment.
What do you think? I mean, I have some followers, professionals in their field, who just rave about my writing and the level of quality. They do so to me in private. And, I do tend to trust their judgement.
Well, there you have my opinion! Comments, please? Hmmm maybe I 'll do a follow-up post on this!
"Level of quality": woops, that doesn't make sense!
ReplyDeleteHi Libby, I just got back from a week long trip visiting with some lovely ladies that I met at Rate my Space and we started a chat room 2 years ago. Sorry I am just now commenting on this very thoughtful and articulate post. I think once we start blogging we do thing more about posting a comment. It is impossible to comment on all but a line or two dropped to the author once in awhile is always appreciated. Thank you for the shout out about my post that really means a lot to me. Like I said I don't think I will ever figure out what makes blogland tick. Happy Monday,Kathysue
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